- Today's Word
Forbearance
for-BAIR-uhns
Definition
(noun) Patient self-control; restraint in the face of provocation.
Example
Her forbearance during the negotiation earned everyone’s respect.
Fun Fact
Forbearance gets a lot of attention in finance (as in mortgage forbearance) and spiritual philosophy. In Buddhism and Stoicism, it’s considered a sign of deep inner strength—not weakness. Think of it as choosing not to strike back, even when you’re capable of doing so, because the bigger goal is peace over pride.
(noun) A feeling of distress or embarrassment caused by failure or disappointment.
To her chagrin, the carefully planned surprise party was spoiled by an accidental group text.
From French chagrin, meaning “sorrow” or “vexation,” possibly derived from a word for “rough skin” — like something that irritates.