- Today's Word
Limerence
[LIM-uh-rens]
Definition
- (noun) A state of intense infatuation or obsession with another person, characterized by overwhelming feelings of attraction, desire, and preoccupation. It often involves intrusive and obsessive thoughts about the object of affection, as well as a strong desire for reciprocation.
Example
From the moment they met, Emily was in a state of limerence, constantly daydreaming about James and eagerly awaiting any opportunity to spend time with him.
Fun Fact
The term “limerence” was coined in 1979 by psychologist Dorothy Tennov to describe the intense, involuntary, and sometimes obsessive romantic feelings that can occur in the early stages of attraction. Tennov derived the term from the word “Limerent,” which she created by combining the words “limer,” an archaic term for a tangle or snare, and the suffix “-ence,” denoting a state or condition. While limerence is often associated with the euphoric feelings of falling in love, it can also have negative aspects, such as anxiety, insecurity, and a preoccupation that can interfere with daily life. Limerence is not considered a clinical disorder but rather a natural phenomenon that many people experience at some point in their lives, particularly in the context of romantic attraction and relationships.
(adjective) Lacking substance, interest, or mature thought; naive and simplistic in a way that reveals inexperience.
The critic dismissed the debut novel as jejune — competently written, technically adequate, and utterly devoid of anything worth remembering.
Jejune derives from the Latin jejunus, meaning “fasting” or “empty” — literally describing a stomach that has not been fed. The same root gives us jejunum, the section of the small intestine named for its tendency to be found empty after death. It entered English in the 17th century carrying its literal sense of emptiness before acquiring its figurative meaning of something intellectually or creatively hollow — content that has the form of nourishment without any of the substance.