TOH-dee

Definition

(noun/verb) A person who behaves obsequiously toward someone powerful in order to gain advantage; to act in such a fawning or sycophantic way.

Example

Everyone in the office could see that Marcus was a toady, laughing loudest at the boss’s jokes and volunteering for every task she mentioned within earshot.

Word Origin

A shortened form of toad-eater — a term from 17th and 18th century traveling medicine shows. Charlatans selling supposed miracle cures would employ an assistant whose job was to publicly swallow — or pretend to swallow — a toad, which was widely believed to be poisonous. The “doctor” would then dramatically cure the assistant with his elixir, demonstrating its power to the crowd. The toad-eater’s willingness to perform this degrading act for his employer’s benefit became a vivid metaphor for servile flattery, eventually shortening to toady by the early 19th century.