- Today's Word
Affable
AF-uh-buhl
Definition
(adjective) Friendly, approachable, and pleasant in manner.
Example
His affable nature made him an instant favorite at every party.
Fun Fact
From Latin affari, meaning “to speak to,” affable describes someone who not only talks to others—but makes them feel comfortable while doing it. It’s frequently used in character profiles, political campaigns, and even performance reviews. Being affable isn’t just about being nice—it’s about being welcoming without trying too hard.
(adjective) Obviously planned or forced rather than arising naturally; lacking authenticity or spontaneity.
The film’s ending felt contrived — a sudden reconciliation between characters who had spent two hours proving they could never forgive each other.
Contrived comes from the verb contrive, rooted in the Old French controver, meaning “to imagine” or “to find out,” itself from the Latin contropare — “to compare” or “to devise.” It entered English in the 14th century originally meaning simply to plan or devise something cleverly. Over time the word acquired its current negative undertone, shifting from neutral ingenuity toward the suggestion of something manipulated or artificially engineered to produce a desired effect.