- Today's Word
Forbearance
for-BAIR-uhns
Definition
(noun) Patient self-control; restraint in the face of provocation.
Example
Her forbearance during the negotiation earned everyone’s respect.
Fun Fact
Forbearance gets a lot of attention in finance (as in mortgage forbearance) and spiritual philosophy. In Buddhism and Stoicism, it’s considered a sign of deep inner strength—not weakness. Think of it as choosing not to strike back, even when you’re capable of doing so, because the bigger goal is peace over pride.
(adjective) Devoid of intelligence, substance, or meaningful content; empty in a way that is made worse by the appearance of fullness.
The panel discussion was so vacuous — four articulate people saying nothing of substance for ninety minutes — that the audience left feeling vaguely cheated by their own attention.
Vacuous derives from the Latin vacuus, meaning “empty” or “void,” rooted in vacare — “to be empty” or “to be free.” The same root gives us vacuum, vacant, vacation — all words built around the idea of emptiness or absence. It entered English in the 17th century, initially used in scientific contexts to describe a literal vacuum before acquiring its cutting figurative sense of a mind or expression that contains nothing worth engaging with.